It is uncommon to have common sense.
There was a goodhearted guy who volunteered to serve in the church bus ministry. He was out solo, learning to drive when the bus stalled in the middle of an intersection. I pulled over to help.
It rested on a level spot in the middle of a hill. I suggested that we push it off center and get it rolling down the hill. He pointed up the hill and said, “But I want to go there!” I said to myself, “In your dreams!”
I offered to push from the back while he pushed on the passenger side next to the door of the bus. If we could get it rolling, he could then jump in and take the wheel and steer it. He agreed.
I pushed and the bus began to rock, when suddenly he joined me on the driver’s side. I said, “Hey if this thing starts rolling, whose gonna guide it?
A guy pulled up in a pickup and offered to tow it. He told the bus driver to put it in neutral and then steer it as it was pulled. The bus driver got behind the wheel and gave the thumbs up sign.
The pickup driver gave it the gas and his tires spun furiously in place. The bus was still in gear, so I slipped away at that point, very much afraid for my life.
The bus driver was a common-sense casualty!
Can a person address common sense deficiencies? Sure! We can learn from parents, or “how to” books, youtube videos and life experiences. They all have much to teach.
But the best, most comprehensive resource is the book of Proverbs. The book was written by Solomon in order to teach his son how to live wisely. Here is a sampling of his sage advice.
– DEBT: “The rich rule over the poor, and the borrower is servant to the lender” (22:7). Solomon tells us that the debt we incur steals our freedom and makes us slaves to those we owe.
– CONFLICT: “Starting a quarrel is like letting out water; abandon strife before it breaks out!” (17:14). Resolving a conflict is harder than gathering up spilled water. Best to manage it beforehand.
– SPEECH: “A gentle response turns away anger, but a harsh word stirs up wrath” (15:1). Careful, gentle words are always the best especially in a time of conflict.
– WORK: “In all hard work there is profit, but merely talking about it only brings poverty” (14:23). Proverbs has much to say about how we work, and the benefits that come from it.
– DISHONEST GAIN: “Stolen waters are sweet, and food obtained in secret is pleasant!” But they do not realize that the dead are there, that her guests are in the depths of the grave” (9:17-18). Solomon honestly discloses the temporary benefits of dishonest gain, but also the enduring consequences.
– TEMPER: “Like a city that is broken down and without a wall, so is a person who cannot control his temper” (25:28). Solomon should have posted my picture next to this one. This was once a big problem for me, fortunately much better now because I have digested such Proverbs.
– SAVINGS: “Go to the ant, you sluggard; observe her ways and be wise! It has no commander, overseer, or ruler, yet it would prepare its food in the summer; it gathered at the harvest what it will eat” (6:6-8). Saving for the future is always wise.
– FRIENDS: ”There are companions who harm one another, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother” (18:24). Loyalty is a hallmark of friendship
Proverbs is bursting with everyday practical wisdom. Read one of the 31 chapters each day for a good infusion of common sense.
Is there an appropriate Proverb for my bus driver buddy? How about this. “It is dangerous to have zeal without knowledge, and the one who acts hastily makes poor choices.” (19:2) Amen!
A PRAYER: Oh God, help me in my foolishess.
This has been Jim Johnson and pickleheavenpress.com
May the grace of our Lord Jesus be with you always.
Scripture passages are from the NETBible®
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