I love nature, unless it is on my porch and armed with stingers. A family of yellow jackets decided to move into our home. To exit or enter said home was a big risk. So, I decided to tackle the problem.
I sprayed the raiders with Raid. They fell one at a time. But with a nest of approximately 5,000, I would poison myself to death before the insects. The peppermint oil that was recommended refreshed them instead of repelling them.
The fake wasp nest that was guaranteed to scare them to death just made them laugh. I even caulked the entrance to the nest, but they tunneled around it.
Finally, I decided to go with green energy. I took an industrial grade fan, set it up right under the entry to their nest. The ferocious wind blew, and the jackets couldn’t pass through it to land.
But oh, how they tried! They would back up, get a flying start and charge toward the nest, only to be blown away. It was sort of entertaining to watch. Really soon the wasps began to drop like flies – completely exhausted, and there they died.
I finally had created a problem that they could not overcome. Maybe they should have ceded the battle and moved in with a cousin in another nest. Instead, they tried and tried, and the effort killed them.
Like those wispy wasps, most of us know what it is like to face a problem that cannot be overcome. We are wired to be problem solvers, and we usually succeed. But every so often we encounter a windstorm that defies our most valiant effort to tame it.
Now I believe that if we can solve the problem, then we certainly need to try, but what if it can’t be solved? What if the doc says the cancer is terminal? What if our spouse runs off and marries another? What if our hair starts falling out and wrinkles line our faces?
Some of us carry on! We strive with all our might to change what can’t be changed. And like the wasps, we exhaust ourselves – some even endangering our health in the process.
Is there a better way? God has some good advice. He said, “Stop your striving and recognize that I am God” – Psalm 46:10. God has the power to change our circumstances if He should want to. He also retains the prerogative of leaving things as they are. The Psalmist urges us to get smart – to stop trying to force the sovereign will of God and rest in Him instead.
Sometimes we just need to trust God and learn to live with a problem.
Great King David understood this. He wrote in Psalm 131, “O Lord, my heart is not proud, nor do I have a haughty look” (131:1a). There are times we strive not out of need, but out of pride. “I will not accept defeat.” David, however, humbled himself before his circumstances and his God.
And then he wrote, “I do not have great aspirations, or concern myself with things that are beyond me” (131:1b).David recognized that there are problems that he could resolve, but there were also those he could not – things that were beyond him and his ability. So, he chose to cease his vain striving.
He continued, “Indeed, I have calmed and quieted myself like a weaned child with its mother; I am content like a young child” (131:2). He replaced his striving with resting on the breast of God. He likened himself to an infant that was no longer frantic to nurse but content to relax in his mother’s embrace.
This was what David did, and he encouraged his countrymen and you and me to do the same by ending the Psalm with “O Israel, hope in the Lord now and forevermore!” (131:3).
Sometimes we just need to trust God and learn to live with a problem.
A PRAYER: Lord help me to know when to strive, and when to let go
This has been Jim Johnson and pickleheavenpress.com
May the grace of our Lord be with you always
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