It is quite popular these days to include the word “point” in the name of one’s church. I know of a Lake Pointe, North Point, Life Point, Center Point, New Point, Mission Point and City Point Church and there are many more.
I have occasionally toyed with the idea of planting a new church. I already have a name. It would be, “What’s the Point” Church.
In my work as a Hospice Chaplain I have encountered many church dropouts who think of the church and wonder, “What’s the Point?”
These folks were often raised in church and have sweet memories. But somewhere along the way they were wounded by church people.
One young man was falsely accused by a church lady of stealing from her purse. Another person was pointed out by the pastor from the pulpit. Another was turned off by ugly church politics.
There are those who are disgusted by the hypocrisy that grips so many in the church. Then there was the adulterous pastor. And what about the church board that tried to cover up the abusive Sunday School incident.
Some have been repulsed by the pastor that drones on about money and the monthly tithe reminder envelopes that come in the mail. Others gave up on the church because they were forgotten during their hospital stay.
These wounded understand what the church ought to be and are discouraged by what it is. They rightfully wonder, “What’s the point?”
What can we say to these dropouts? What can we do to make sure that we do not become, or cause the next casualty?
1. Remember that we continue to be sinners, saved and sustained by grace.
Take a spiritual selfie. What do you see? Can you honestly say that there is never inconsistency in your own spiritual life? We understand that we are sinners saved by grace. Once redeemed we remain to be sinners, sustained by grace. The apostle John wrote to Christian people saying, “If we say we do not bear the guilt of sin, we are deceiving ourselves and the truth is not in us.” – 1 John 1:8
Most of us do not want to fail the Lord and or each other – but we do, and we will because we are still made of flesh. Expect to be disappointed by others. If needed apply Galatians 6:1, “If a person is discovered in some sin, you who are spiritual restore such a person in a spirit of gentleness.” Don’t skip the last half of this verse. “Pay close attention to yourselves, so that you are not tempted too.”
I had a seminary professor that used to say, “If you should ever find the perfect church, don’t join it, because you’ll ruin it.”
2. Keep your eyes on Jesus
The author of Hebrews pictured the Christian life as being a race. He then advised us to keep our eyes, “on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of our faith.” Hebrews 12:2.
Every competitive runner knows that taking even a fraction of time to glance at the other runners, slows you down. We need to stop looking at others and fix our eyes ahead on Jesus who stands at the finish line
He is our master. He is the one to whom we answer, and He will one day address the dumb things that each of we Christians have done. Let’s leave the judging to Him.
3. Keep His commandments
When I served as a pastor, there were times of frustration when I asked the Lord, “Are you sure that the church is your best idea for managing your people?” He ignored me because He already answered the question in Matthew 16:18. “…I will build my church, and the gates of Hades will not overpower it.” He expects us to be an active part of a local church (Matthew 18:15-18; Hebrews 10:25)
Recently my grandson asked, “Why do some Christians give up on church?” I explained to him much of what I wrote above. Then I said,” Buddy, I have personally been so wounded by church, that I would probably drop out if I could. But I can’t – because my Savior expects me to continue to be an active part of His church.” He says to me, “If you love me, you will obey my commandments.” (John 14:15)
My mom was a fantastic cook but there was a time that she burned dinner. I was so upset, I vowed that I would never eat again. That’s ridiculous of course.
We will be burned at times by church people, but never should we forsake Christ’s church. The blessings of being with the people of God far outweigh the bumps along the way.
Biblical references come from the NET Bible ®